Help me

So I’ve heard a lot about this series and I want to get into it, however there are so many books and I don’t know where to start. I’m overwhelmed by it all. Are all of her series interconnected? Which order do I read? Where should I start? Should I read all the books she has out? I’m so overwhelmed by everything and I need help.

Also if any of the series have reverse harem or why choose can someone please let me know know. I want to be aware and also if possible could I skip the book that has those couples?

Looking for a very detailed rundown on all the series and books lol