TIFU by thinking dickcheese was normal

Obligatory, did not happen today, I rather found out about it over the course of a few months.

When me and my ex were still dating, I used to always gag at the taste and scent of his penis. It always had a rim of white cheese like substance under the foreskin.

During these past few weeks, me, my friend and my boyfriend got to talking about what we are happy with in our current relationships, and I said how I really liked how the taste of his penis in my mouth didn't make me want to puke my brains out.

This spiraled into a conversation about hygiene and I found out that dickcheese is not a normal part of the male anatomy. I was frankly horrified at the thought of having had bacterial build up in my mouth and in my genitals. I also finally figured out that a bacterial infection I developed during me and my ex's relationship was due to him not washing his penis enough.

I am genuinely thankful for my friend and my current boyfriend for letting me know that this was not normal. Otherwise I might still be thinking it was normal.

TLDR: I found out that dickcheese is not a normal part of male anatomy and I had been having a dirty, unwashed dick in my mouth.