lowkey hate the femboy community

Can’t post anything on any femboy sub or discord without getting creepy DMs from people with the worst pickup lines—or ones who try to be really nice and supportive, only for you to check their profile and find nothing but femboy porn. I thought it was common sense to check someone’s profile to see if they’re underage before hitting on them. Or you’ll talk to someone, and they’ll lie about their age. And if it’s not a pedo, it’s someone who loses interest within minutes of meeting you, with extreme commitment issues—even for a friendship. Or it’s someone who just wants to use you sexually and has no interest in forming a genuine connection. And if you do meet someone who shares your interests, they’re already part of a tight-knit group and turn out to be a complete asshole.
I only have two friends who aren’t like this—who know about me dressing fem and actually see and treat me like a real person. One is online, and both are extremely busy. It’s really difficult for me to make friends at school because when I opened up about it to my friend group, they wouldn’t let me live it down—that’s all I became to them.