Now Accepting Applications: My Perfect Match! ✨

Tiny but Mighty: HR Pro, Bookworm, and Aspiring MasterChef looking for my forever plus one :)

Hey there, fellow ReddMatchers! I’m a 30-year-old, 5’0” bundle of energy (although more stressed lately) living in Toronto, Canada, with my heart forever in Amchi Mumbai. I’m on the lookout for a kind, loyal, and emotionally mature partner—someone who’s in it for the long haul, ready to build something real, and isn’t afraid of a little adventure (or a lot of home-cooked meals).

📌 About Me

📍 Current Location: Toronto, Canada 🏡 Hometown: Mumbai, India 🎂 Age: 30 (F) 📏 Height: 5’0” (Yes, I am tiny, but I make up for it with my personality!)

🎨 Interests & Hobbies

📖 Reading: A lifelong obsession that started with reading billboards in Mumbai autos with my mom and escalated to devouring books like A Thousand Splendid Suns or anything by Khaled Hosseini, The Shiva Trilogy, The Henna Artist, and more (post-independence India fiction is where my heart is at). My Kindle is my best friend, but one day, I dream of a cozy reading nook filled with real books.

🌍 Sightseeing & Travel: Haven’t done nearly enough of it yet, but my bucket list is long enough to circle the globe. Traveling before my legs stop working like they used to before (yes, I loved Ed Sheeran before he went mainstream, he’s still lovely though).

🍳 Cooking: Love it when it’s for fun, not obligation. Christmas dinner? I’m your chef! Everyday meal prep? Eh, let’s keep it simple.

🛕 Religious & Cultural Background

🔹 Religion: Raised as an East-Indian Catholic (No, not from “East India”—yes, it’s a thing! Look it up!) 🔹 Spiritual Views: Spiritual and religious, with a deep respect for all faiths. I grew up with my mom making prasad for Ganesh Ji and praying to Bhadra Kali Ji, and it stuck with me.

🍛 Food & Lifestyle Preferences

🥩 Dietary Preference: Hard-core non-vegetarian (Sorry, paneer, you’re cute but not my vibe).

🍷 Alcohol: Yes, occasionally—a social drinker.

🚬 Smoking: No

🎓 Education & Career

📜 Highest Qualification: PG Diploma in Business Management

💼 Occupation: Human Resources (Basically, I get paid to manage people and prevent office drama.)

💰 Annual Income: Self-sufficient (happy to discuss in private).

❤️ What I’m Looking For

I’m dating to marry—not here for casual flings, half-hearted effort, or “let’s see where this goes.” If you’re emotionally available, intentional, and genuinely ready to build a future, keep reading!

✅ Preferred Age Range: 29-35

✅ Preferred Occupation: Engineer

✅ Preferred Height: 5’5” and above (for practical reasons—like reaching the top shelf).

✅ Preferred Religion & Caste: Maharashtrian, Gujarati, Catholics (but open if values align).

✅ Food Compatibility: You don’t have to eat meat, but you should be 100% comfortable with it being cooked in our home.

✅ Drinking: Occasionally is fine.

✅ Smoking: NOPE. (Dealbreaker)

✅ Marriage Timeline: Ideally before 2026, but I know you can’t rush these things.

✅ Relocation After Marriage? No. Toronto is home, and I’m looking for someone who’s already here or willing to move.

💡 Non-Negotiables: The Things That Matter

💬 On Communication & Conflict

I’ve been told I lean anxiously attached, which means I don’t do the whole “let’s take space” after an argument. If something’s bothering you, let’s talk it out instead of playing the silent treatment game. I’ll work on being more secure if you work on being open with me—deal?

❤️ On Loyalty & Emotional Maturity

I’m all in when I commit, and I expect the same. If something isn’t working, we fix it together—I don’t believe in jumping ship when things get tough. If you’re the kind of guy who proudly calls his partner his person, we’ll get along just fine.

🛠️ On Partnership & Responsibilities

I believe in splitting responsibilities—financially, emotionally, and around the house. Some days, you’ll bring 60%, and I’ll bring 40%, and vice versa. The goal? Build a life where we both can buy back our time for ourselves and each other (yes, let’s hire help to make life simpler and focus on each other).

💛 On Kindness & Humility

I don’t care how impressive your resume is—how you treat people when no one’s watching matters more. I’m empathetic and wear my heart on my sleeve, and I want a partner who leads with kindness, not arrogance.

📩 How to Apply (Yes, There’s an Application Process 😆)

(That’s the HR in me lol)

If you made it this far without rolling your eyes, DM me with:

1️⃣ A fun fact about yourself or your fav meme.

2️⃣ Your thoughts on emotional availability and maturity in a relationship

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Let’s build something real ✨