Hirap makahanap ng serious date / rel these days

I envy those people who are currently happy in their relationship. These days, ang hirap na makahanap ng dates / relationships na serious talaga. Mostly fun, fubu, or gamitan lang.

I’ve been in a serious relationship before kaso hindi nag-work. Now, i’m trying to talk to other guys out there kaso ang hirap makahanap ng may spark. Either i-ghost ka or biglang not interested na sayo. I’m already 29 (M) and kinda pressured na since almost all my friends are already happy with their partners. Ako nalang minsan walang +1.

I have a stable job, very genuine with high emotional intelligence and provider mindset. Meron ba jan may same sentiments as mine? How do you deal with it?