Lifestyle creep hit me hard - what do I do?

Well. I broke cardinal rule #2. My lifestyle/bills increased to match my total income and I now have 30k in CC debt. I work 2 “low paying” jobs totaling approx 140/yr. I have my bonus being paid out in a few days (12k) but not sure how to tackle the rest of my debt. My bills are high (2 kids, single mom) and I just need some guidance.

I know it’s dumb to even be in this situation but I was never taught financial literacy growing up and am sick to my stomach mad that I did this to myself.

EDIT:

Thanks all for the advice (hateful and helpful ones)- will update the post when I am debt free to keep accountable.