DOs and DON’Ts of searching/looking a Girl for arrange marriage?

I come from a rural middle-class family, but my journey has taken me through a very different world. I’ve been educated and now work in an affluent metro environment, which has shaped my lifestyle, thinking, and exposure in ways that are quite different from my family’s. That said, I’ve always stayed grounded—I can blend just as easily in rural settings as I do in urban ones.

Now that my family is looking for a bride through their network, it’s proving to be quite a challenge. The contrast in lifestyle and outlook between me and my family is almost 180 degrees, making it hard to find someone who fits well in both worlds.

To add to that, relationships today come with a different kind of risk—where even small misunderstandings can escalate legally. It’s not a major concern, but something that lingers in the back of my mind.

So here I am, searching for someone who understands both sides of my life—someone who connects with where I come from and where I am today. It’s not easy, but I’m hoping the right match is out there.

Gyani log, suggestions please🙏🏻 Thank you