Baby fever

Now I disclaim that I am NOT judging how everyone has their own plan that makes sense for them. I am judging how it seems she has consistently talked about getting engaged online and it’s been obvious that she’s waiting for josh but it seems like he won’t. He clearly has the money. So why are we trying so hard to have a baby out of wedlock and trying very hard to convince the internet that having a baby prior to engagement / marriage is what they decided is best?!? Seems like josh doesn’t want to put a ring on it honey.. he has no problem committing before. Yikes