Husband compares what he's done to noticing a shiny new car

I'm really trying to move forward after multiple Ddays and a million conversations about how his constantly seeking out other women to look at naked makes me feel and why it makes me feel that way. I've told him over and over that, as a woman, this completely destroys our self-esteem and makes us feel worthless. It makes us feel like we mean nothing to them because not only are they continually choosing other women, over us, but they ALWAYS lie about it and try to make us feel like we're the crazy ones for having a problem with it. It's normal, they say. Men look at porn. If it's so normal, why were you hiding in the bathroom with your phone. If you're doing nothing wrong, why were you hiding it at all? You know damn well what you're doing and you know it's wrong!

You know what he told me once? I keep going back to it over and over in my head and I just can't wrap my brain around it. He said, "Say a man goes out and buys a nice shiny new Corvette. It's his first car. He loves his Corvette, drives it every day, everywhere he goes. Then he drives by a car lot and sees a Porsche sitting there on the lot and he takes a little time admiring it. He checks it out. Thinks about what it would be like to drive it. Doesn't mean he doesn't still love his Corvette."

Are you fucking serious?!?!? I'm not a CAR!!!!! I'm a person. A REAL person with REAL feelings and it is SO not the same thing! I wonder if they're just all so immature and self-centered that we'd all be better off to swear off of men completely. Will they ever change? I mean, REALLY change?