Why INTJ women seem highly sought after online?

As an INTJ female, I've noticed that male "INTJs" often seek us out online. However, I have serious doubts about whether they are genuinely INTJ men. In my experience, I've never encountered an INTJ male in real life who wasn’t eerily similar to me in terms of desiring organic, authentic connections rather than forced interactions. I'm curious to hear your thoughts on this.