Issues with growing the game?

Just going to go off here. I’ve been golfing since the age of I could walk and am not a trust fund child. But I am tired of the state of golf now and it is so difficult to even play an enjoyable 9-18. The amount of “8 somes”, won’t let you play through, slow play, music on the course, “my kids would NEVER do that!” etc has ruined the game. I miss the way golf once was. A casual Saturday with common golfers under 4-5 hours. 2 handicap or 20, golf courses used to have rules. I’m open to growing the game. But GOLF IS FOR GENTLEMEN/WOMEN. HAVE SOME DECORUM. Anyone agree??