Looking for a fleet commander game where either you don't actively control your fleet or you give minimum orders.

Imagine Mount and Blade in space. A couple games that I know are similar to this idea are Starsector, Endless Space, and X4.

I'm not looking for games that you individually control each unit like Sins of a Solar Empire or Empire at War, although I do enjoy them. I'm just terrible at those kinds of games.

Being a capital ship amongst your fleet of smaller ships is a huge plus!