About the upcoming potential government shutdown?

Who is right? Is AOC right to let republicans figure it out without help from Democrats. With the bonus of the democrats standing up to the Republicans. Or is Schumer right and a shutdown would only benefit Elon? I prefer the democrats doing some pushback but don’t enough about CRs and government shutdowns to know of there really isn’t “an off-ramp” as Schumer says. And btw, who says Republicans will even play by the rules.