Is he just not into me??
I went out on a third date with a guy to a regular non-fancy place. When the bill came, there was some issue with the card or machine (not sure) so they asked him if he could pay via UPI or cash. He said that he wanted to pay only with card because apparently he would get some offer or cashback. We had to wait for 5-10 minutes to resolve the issue as he was adamant. Now, my question is - is he even interested in me??? I know that men have a provider mindset so the fact that he was willing to go out of his way to save some money when I was right in front of him makes me feel that he doesn’t see me as a romantic partner. We had only ordered this chicken dish and just three others with a few drinks I know it was not a lot of money. On the previous dates, I didn’t even know that he had paid because he did it discreetly. He had been chivalrous and made me feel like a princess but now this act makes me feel as if he is losing interest. Could it be that he is in a financially bad place or just not into me? Men of Delhi, please let me know.
I went out on a third date with a guy to a regular non-fancy place. When the bill came, there was some issue with the card or machine (not sure) so they asked him if he could pay via UPI or cash. He said that he wanted to pay only with card because apparently he would get some offer or cashback. We had to wait for 5-10 minutes to resolve the issue as he was adamant. Now, my question is - is he even interested in me??? I know that men have a provider mindset so the fact that he was willing to go out of his way to save some money when I was right in front of him makes me feel that he doesn’t see me as a romantic partner. We had only ordered this chicken dish and just three others with a few drinks I know it was not a lot of money. On the previous dates, I didn’t even know that he had paid because he did it discreetly. He had been chivalrous and made me feel like a princess but now this act makes me feel as if he is losing interest. Could it be that he is in a financially bad place or just not into me? Men of Delhi, please let me know.