frustrated and i might stay single my whole life.

as the title reads.

i don’t even know where to begin tbh but i can say that whenever i start speaking to anyone it wouldn’t take longer than a month for that initial excitement to go away. i wasn’t sure at first if it was me or them because i’d still have the same excitement that i have the first day to the last day. it’s not working with barely anyone new i meet and it’s driving me insane.

my last relationship ended two years ago and it lasted 3 years and ever since, i feel like i’ve lost my charm in talking to women, and to add more insult to injury im barely getting any matches on dating apps. and if i do it’s a random bot. i know lookwise im 7/10 and i have hobbies and good things going for me career wise, what the fuck am i doing wrong?

this whole rant is about a recent woman ive been talking to and got blocked after a 20 minutes call we had, like boom she just disappeared after that without a word of explanation. i tried to recall everything i’ve said and if i said something to offend her, i couldn’t in anyway. we were talking about pets, video games, and food.

i’d love to hear anyone’s thoughts on this