How do people keep dating?

I’ve (30F) been looking for my person consistently for 5 years after the end of a 4 year long relationship. Been on so many dates it’s embarrassing. I’ve had a couple of short relationships within that time (past 5 years). It feels impossible to actually meet somebody that you like and they like you back. I feel so discouraged 😥 I don’t want to give up but honestly don’t understand how to keep doing this either. I’ve always envisioned being a wife.