I've ruined my pyromancers chances

So I've missed the chance to get my pyromancy catalyst high enough to get the advanced tutor (ive forgotten her name) and I killed the gross guy by the blind spider lady. Any chance someone with a +10 flame could invade me today so I can get access to better stuff? I've just entered the 'get the lord souls' part of the game for the first time and im concerned.

thanks.