My friends aren’t treating me the way they used to in college.

my college friens always used to ask me where to hang out on weekends. I would usually pick the spot, and we would all discuss and decide together.

But recently, they’ve been making plans on their own and just informing me afterward, saying, "We're going here. Are you coming or not?" They decide the spot themselves without even asking if it's okay for me, and they pressure me to join them.

Even though we’re really good friends, and I’m always excited to meet them, I don’t know why they’ve started acting this way in recent years.