Matrimony/ Arranged marriage is a jokešš©
So, 29M here. Been searching for alliance in matrimony, parentās wanted me to be in chennai even though if my ctc(9)was low despite completing MBA. My father has been put on transfer continuously for the last 20 years in north side & in gulf and he comes to home every 3 months once sometimes a year. I didnāt want this to happen with my career and made up by mindset that I will settle in chennai even though packages and opportunities are less compared to other states. We have a own flat and 3 more houses from which rent is coming. Mom has fair amount of jewels too. I am a brown skinned average looking boy who has no bad habits.
Coming to the point, not even one girl wanted to talk about how my character is and interests are. Even if some girls talk, directly they go to the most irritating part, āwhy is your ctc lessā and some even dared to ask why you are not investing in share market and Mutual funds.
Despite not having any loans, what amount do girls expect? I am sure that 1.2- 1.5L combined salary is more than enough to live a good life. And I am just a switch from getting at-least 60-100% hike. Market is bad and thats why didnāt want to take the risk currently.
I have lost interest in arranged marriage because of the greed of these girls and I think itās better to spend and enjoy for yourself than to spend on a girl who just wants to marry for your properties and āCTCā.