Wanting a seating chart means I’m a bridezilla??

I guess I really just need someone to tell me if this is a bridezilla thing?!? I can’t recall a wedding I’ve been to that didn’t have a seating chart but multiple members of my fiancés family and my best friends mom (who I consider like a second mom to me) told me that only bridezillas do a seating chart?

Are seating charts like not a thing anymore?

Photo of what i’m hoping to do as reference