Am I wrong for this?

There was this person I met about a year ago at camp. She stayed in one of the masc presenting cabins. What I am wondering is she trans for saying that she wants to be a boy? She said that she wanted to be a boy but then followed up with not wanting to have people use he/him pronouns for her our getting any sort of changes to her body. Is it okay if me to feel like she isn't really trans or is that being a transmedicalist. I just don't see how she would be trans, but if she is I would love help seeing that. Not sure if this is related or not but she was super manipulative, convincing three different guys in the span of two weeks to hang out with her nonstop and not with anyone else.

Edit: I would like to add that she said she wouldn't want to present masculinity and that she hates all men... so idk