Is being a virgin a red flag and a dealbraker?

Sorry for the weird topic, but a dude in my dms told me that by staying a virgin i am limiting my potential pool of marchew, becouse it is not 18th century and nobody will be willing to date me. I am not religous, I just don't want to lose my virginity with sb random, I kinda want it to be special. Now I am scared, will anybody date me? This is 100% serious, I am so scared