dl bf that is a dad

my “boyfriend” is dl so he has a child , which didnt bother me at first cause that was before me so yk we been going on for a year and 2 months now but back in september he had another child which threw me off but i met him january of 2024 so he had got the woman pregnant before he met me but he didnt tell me until now that he has 2 with 2 different woman and he takes all day to respond to my messages , he always hits me with the “wydn” all day and everyday , when i express myself he tries to tell me to calm down or im taking my anger of something else on him , or if i have a conversation about his communication he blames it on him being a father and tells me he doesnt have time for anyone but when i say well then we should stop what we got goin on , he says “i dont got time for no one else but you and my son” and all we do is text , he doesnt call me or facetime me , he only called me twice , we see eachother time to time and i put in the effort to see one another and i try to get him to communicate with me better cause he will not text me all day but view my instagram stories and etc and he tries to use his son against me when i try to hold him accountable for his actions , so this “relationship” whatever u wanna call it , its one sided , he tells me “i love you” all the time but idk tbh. so idk if im jus a fuckin idiot or i try to see the best in ppl but idk what to do guys