Being 21 and not a hairless twink sucks

I'm 21 years old I weigh 160 lb and I'm 5'9 I would say I'm above average in looks and have been described as handsome and cute very often but I want to say 80% of the time when it comes to guys my own age the biggest turn off for them is the fact that I have body hair and hell even for guys older than me the fact that I'm not a hairless twink means I have no value romantically or sexually and it's really starting to f****** get to me and most of the time when I reach out to people on apps like Grindr or hell even on Tinder the most common reason that people give when they do give a reason is my body type because apparently being an otter just means no one wants you And the only people who are ever really interested in me are guys in their mid thirties... because those seem to be the only dates I can manage to get and I don't even really want to date guys that are more than a decade older than me but it has been beaten into me repeatedly that if I want to date that's what I got to do because guys my age don't want whatever the hell I am