What to do? What not to do?
Reddit intellectuals need your opinions.
I'll tell my story in short While I was in college I liked this girl like I'm obsessed with her. She's in the edge of breaking her relationship. Thought i could pull that off but she chose her cousin after the break-up and I was friendzoned. So, i decided to let her go and went for no contact i deleted her number and moved on.
she used to call me once a while to rant about her cousin. I told her that I'm not able to do this and blocked her completely. I stopped recharging my number and started using other number.
In the meanwhile I tried to connect with women on reddit but everything got stopped at talking stage, guess i becoming a therapist these days, and I stopped that too and started working on myself with work and all.
I received a call 6months back from her and I talked to her whether she need anything like related to college certificates something cuz I'm the CR and i have all the fee details of the class. But she started fight instead of that like I'm just checking on you and random shit.
She told me that she had a fight with her cousin and told me that she cut ties off(which I never believed in the first place). She told me that she just wanted friendship from me and can't have feelings even if inthe near future. I took the rejection and said, I'm ok with the friendship. She's been calling me now and then and we're talking about some random things like books and stuff.
So, my question is was it some random shit or just a genuine friendship or she's trying keep an option or may be playing mind games to get her attention???
I'm not calling nor texting ever since she redzoned me. Should I go with the flow or should I stop entertaining her. I can't express my feelings about bailing off again', but I'll just ghost her whenever she calls if required. I'm done being a joker. If it's genuine friendship i appreciate it.
So, what to do? What not do? Need most practical one's.