Is it normal to feel guilt?

I've known I was part of the LGBTQ+ community for a few years now. I started off as bisexual, then pansexual,until I finally came the the conclusion I could actually have been aroace. I am ace, but my question is within the fact I think I'm arospec.

I've been looking at micro labels, though I'm not the biggest fan of using them myself for this very reason: thinking about them a lot confuses me. Overthinking confuses me. However, I'm pretty sure I'm cupioromantic, which then comes with guilt. Some days I'm fine with it and I don't have a problem, other days I feel like I've been punched in the gut; will I never feel love? The guilt of this hurts badly. The only love I've felt is love that I've ruled out as platonic.

I don't know how to word it, but js this guilt normal as a cupioro? Or even arospecs in general?