My husband and I disagree on politics. He doesn’t understand why it affects me so much.

My husband (31M) and I (28F) have been together since I was 18. We got married 2.5 years ago. We’ve never had a major argument- we listen to each other and understand our views and take accountability. We support each other’s decisions. And of course, we always agreed on politics. Until the last year. In 2024, I had 3 pregnancy loses. If I couldn’t have received the care I did, I might be dead. I have many friends that are LGBTQ+. DEI directly affects me. He told me he just wanted what’s best for our future- cheaper groceries, better mortgage rates. I tried to have an honest conversation about tariffs. I tried to say even if all of that was true and possible- what about my rights? He said I wouldn’t lose my rights, that part wasn’t true. Since November, we haven’t brought up politics. He mentioned the other day that the cost of his company car might increase, since they’re manufactured in Mexico. He’s complained about the price of eggs. He doesn’t see that it’s what he voted for. I’m so upset and lost. I know there’s so many women in this position- I just didn’t think I’d be one. His family has the same views. My family is conservative too. I have no support system for myself. I do love him. I love how he treats me and makes sure I’m taken care of. But this part of him, that wasn’t there for the last 10 years, is tearing me apart. I’ve reached out to therapists to set up appointments and try to get some guidance. Maybe couples counseling. I’m just lost. I don’t know if I’m venting or what, but if you made it this far, thank you💜

Edit: Thank you all for reading and replying. I’m working through all of it. I think I would have more courage if my parents/siblings/extended family didn’t have the same views he now does. He used to be my safe person, my rock. I’m not sure anymore. Again- thank you all.