I have an overprotective brother and its driving me crazy

Am a 24 f my big brother is super protective in a bad way tho he loves me alot and he s very generous when it comes to money etc he is somehow controlling my life . Complaining all the time about my outfits tho i dont wear provocative ones , i dress basic . We always argue when i go out wearing only pants (a loose one) and a t shirt or when i do makeup . Its really frustrating because i dress up modestly most of the time and still get ugly comments and threats. Also am not allowed to share my pictures online or even use instagram or ill get into trouble.

I really dont hate and i dont want to dress up like a hoe either , the thing is i want to be respected as an adult i want to feel free choosing what to do with my life .

I tried talking to him several times but he wouldnt listen and he would get mad and start yelling and abusing me verbally ( physically sometimes)