Wife began liking someone else

My wife began liking someone else.

She is 38F and married for 4 years.

She recently admitted to me that she had began liking someone else and as soon as she began liking him,i was the first person to know about it. I will put up whole story and will try to narrate the whole incident and i hope readers can put it together.

Okay so this happened when we went to our family friends wedding. There she saw a guy who was like 23-24 years old and was looking at her and trying to her attention and she noticed it. She also began liking his stares at her. She even told me about it that some guy is constantly looking at her and she was liking it. To my surprise she wanted to sit at a place where they could see each other better and even went around for a walk in the venue so she can see him. She was acting like i was her friend who she could tell everything. She was visible excited and joyed that this guy was trying to catch her attention and she said he was good looking and thats the reason she was liking his attention. So this was a pre wedding function and 2 days later was wedding.

She was totally full of excitment to see him again and was lost in the moment and shared with how amazing it was feeling

So the day comes and all she did the wedding day was try to catch his attention by giving looks and at one point she went and sat at a different table because she felt that guy was hesitant in looking at her or even approaching her as she was with her whole family and she walked around venue also so he can approach her. She did not focus on wedding and i felt she did not have her mind on her family too and was all about him that day. The guy was around her but didnt come to her obviously due to scare i think. But she was visibly upset leaving the venue as she didnt get his contact and said she wouldnt mind getting in touch with him on social site or would meet him also for coffee date. She said she had a crush on him and kind of liked him.

She shared with me everything and said she was so guilty of feeling like this and also didnt want to do this behind my back so didnt hide it.

Few days later she opentallked to me that she isnt kind of person who would like 2 guys at one time and she was low on liking part with me during those days and this incident happened.

She said after these years of marriage she wasnt very excited as constantly trying to put everything at place in married life and managing a house had put her under pressure.

She liked me more was everything was care free and all we thought about was having fun and going around.

But obviously after marriage things change a bit and you have to take up more responsibility and along with being a couple you also become 2 people who have to manage a house and a social life and there is some pressure.

She missed being care free and freedom which she saw in that guy and was wanting to feel like it.

She said it was an interesting run with him because he was complete stranger and a mystery to her and she like this idea. Getting to know someone from begining.

She recently also had began asking for a vodka every once in a while. She hadnt drank after marriage though but now wants to.

She believes things are great but the excitment part isnt there anymore in marriage. She feels great but gets bored at times.