Stuck housing

Lately it's been really hard removing the filter housing for oil changes, that I have to take it to a shop to be lifted to use a longer wrench for more torque. Should I stop tightening to torque spec or is something else going on??

Lately it's been really hard removing the filter housing for oil changes, that I have to take it to a shop to be lifted to use a longer wrench for more torque. Should I stop tightening to torque spec or is something else going on??