Dapat ba talagang iwasan ang R18+ Topics?

For Context: Me and my almost bf (malapit ko na siyang sagutin) were having a talk about something tapos biglang na-shift sa NSFW Topic because he joked about something. Alam niyang may experiences na ako with sex (I had a hoe phase) and I'm transparent about it but he never judged me for it but I'm done, I don't see myself going back to that era but that doesn't mean that my libido is down, I'm still feeling some tendencies and some heating up moments kaya madalas ko talaga siyang inaaning but he always avoids those kinds of talk, he will always find a way to shift the mood.

Now, tell me, dapat ba talagang iwasan yung mga ganung topics? Like, there were times pa na I would joke about having sex and he would say, "I'm preserving my virginity for marriage." And I totally respect him for that, I'm down with his mindset, there's absolutely nothing wrong with that but I couldn't help but feel judged and parang ang dating sakin is ako yung bad guy for joking about that pero pag siya, sinasabayan ko siya hahahaha. Para kasi sakin, walang masama with open-minded talks especially if it's related to sex kasi it could help with trust and could help with avoiding certain things, 'diba? If the right day comes, we'll eventually do it, right? I doubt na we won't kasi I've seen his freaky side, I've seen the way he talks to his friends, mas bastos pa nga siya mag-biro sakin kaya I doubt talaga na he could endure it once we become official, especially if I'm feeling the heat as well.