Self-conscious w/ swinging

My partner and I are new to the LS and haven’t swapped just yet but are now meeting others in the LS and working on setting up our first meeting. We joined a site to connect with couples who want to play and it’s been SO exciting so far.

Let me preface by saying my partner makes me feel good and I am very confident with him… One thing I wasn’t prepared for was feeling like I can’t “compete” with the others. Not that this is a competition because it’s NOT and I know comparison is the thief of joy but I can’t help but notice most ALL of these women have amazing bodies!! Tan, fit, perky boobs, no stretch marks… and they are incredibly sexy!! Don’t get me wrong I’m not unfortunate looking lol but I am plus sized and have stretch marks (milf) and boobs that aren’t perky. Which leaves me wondering… why would their husbands want to fuck me instead of them?

I know it seems silly but maybe I’ll feel better after gaining some experience and insight? Tell me I’m not alone in feeling this way!