Going from "cute space" to being ravished

I've been with my partner for over two years now and whereas initially I was a bit indifferent towards forehead kisses and head pats I now crave such moments of calmness and vulnerability with him.

I don't quite think of our relationship as DDlg, since, as partners, we do caregiver-type things for each other pretty equally and we don't really have a set out of bedroom dynamic. But I am now finding real enjoyment in being vulnerable and feeling 'smol' when I'm with him, especially when I'm stressed out, or tired, or unwell, you get the gist. When he holds me close to his chest and starts running his fingers through my hair and saying sweet words, I find these moments very cute and my heart is just full of love and appreciation. It really does feel close to what some people describe as littlespace or being someone's pet.

However, irrespective of my state and energy levels, I am finding that these actions often make me melt in more ways than one - I get so horny and want to be used by him and "made feel better" 🙈

I think this has now led to another level in our unofficial free use dynamic, where he just cannot help himself but "take advantage of me" in that vulnerable state. I might be low energy, or falling asleep (or having dozed off already) but when his hands start wandering down my lower back and my thighs, or gripping the back of my neck, I can't help but feel excitement about where this might be going. Such instances now often end up in me being aggressively groped, given multiple orgasms, bitten, eaten out and fucked with a kind of primal insatiability, which, in contrast how these "scenes" start, makes it super hot. It's like one moment I'm asleep and the next - I'm being devoured. Is there any better description of "cute aggression"? 😅

Has anyone else experienced similar scenarios?