alternative to a collar

i saw a post on here talking about collar recommendations and it made me think about how i want to perpetually remind myself that i’m owned.

i never thought about wearing a collar truthfully. i think collars are fantastic and something i would explore at home but i dont find that they would fit my day to day style without sticking out massively, even something more similar to a thin choker. would seriously clash with my aesthetic.

so i was considering alternatives, outside of a ring since that’s inevitable, and i thought about get a necklace with his first initial on it! i wear a stainless steel chain every day because i think it makes me looks hard and it’s a nice accessory, so i got some split rings and i plan on getting his letter from a craft store so i can put it all together. i only take the necklace off to shower so it’s perfect.

i ran this by him and he was all for it and loved the idea. so i wanted to share for those who maybe can’t or dont want to wear a collar. it’s a little more subtle than a collar for day to day wear and an outwardly cute gesture. but knowing the true meaning of it internally is something i find comforting and really powerful as a sub that wants a physical reminder that i can always feel and have on me :)