How did you meet your dom?

I'm so overwhelmed dating apps. Deleted bumble, Hinge, tinder. About to delete feeld only on fetlife but mainly just for attention. I figure if I'm supposed to meet someone I will. I loved my former dom and he just manipulated that at every turn. I don't even want anything with dating or the lifestyle right now. Obviously right now I'm supposed to be by myself. Just curious how yall met your dom