Sekiro is much harder if you’ve played other souls games huh?

Personally i found Sekiro challenging but not that bad at the same time, For other souls games ive played a few hours of Elden ring and Bloodborne and I just couldn’t with them (even though im desperately trying to get into both currently) and for me they were WAY harder than this game. I couldn’t even get past the first boss in either yet i keep reading and seeing people say this is the hardest souls game and I just didn’t understand it, but I think I’ve figured out why after playing more of Bloodborne. This game is just so different from the others there’s no leveling, no class types, no play styles you start as wolf and you parry the entire game. There’s also the fact you’re supposed to be extremely offensive in it (Hesitation is defeat after all) hell I can’t even get past Cleric Beast and Father G in Bloodborne but I’m about to be ng+ 7 in sekiro. Anyways, please feel free to drop Elden ring and Bloodborne tips for me i desperately need them