Aiden and Elsa - Aiden’s motivations

So the trilogy about Aiden and Elsa is one of my all time favorites. I love them and the people they are however over the course of the many rereads I’ve done since there is so much information spread out over three different books I struggle to keep track of it all. Since they are my favorite I really want to be able to have a clear precise understanding of them and their storyline.

My thoughts/questions is what was Aiden’s plan with Jonathan that he mentions in the first and second book. He was mad that Elsa forgot him made a pact to destroy her and said he would do it, silver was engaged to him so Jonathan told her to keep the engagement on, but after spending time with Elsa, Aiden remembered why he fell in love with her and decided he doesn’t want to destroy her? Was the whole “be mine or else” arc basically saying if u don’t be mine Jonathan will continue to come after you and your whole life will be destroyed? What was Aiden’s whole thought process across the three books?

I just think it would be really helpful to me if I had it all written out on one page.