When did you first start feeling kicks?

Hey everyone! Just wondering when you first started feeling kicking. I'm 30, FTM and already 21.5 weeks along and have felt nothing! Nothing like what I read online. Nothing that feels like flutters or quickening or fish swimming in my belly and no kicks at all. When should I start to worry? I've read that sometimes it takes longer for plus size women to feel kicks but wanted to ask this sub for their real world stories. When did you start to feel kicks and what did it feel like for you at first? Thanks!