talking with bar girls

repost from different sub

SO im not a very interesting (or good looking for that matter) SO have to pay to get a girls attention lol. tried going out here in pattaya, bought a lady a drink to get her attention but 2 minutes in the conversation died. I know she tried (and so did I). it got awkward so she brought out connect4 so we could play. this always happens.

how do you keep her engaged?