Best oscar winner/nominee for a first date?

I invited my crush out. She wants me to choose to "test" my taste. (She is kind of a cinephile. Which movie we see is IMPORTANT). The options are:

Anora

Conclave

Ainda estou aqui(the brazilian one)

The brutalist

They are all again on cinema bc of the Oscars.

EDIT *** I know that i should choose by myself as others have already mentioned. (But) the way i see it there is an ever widening gap between what professional critics find good and what normal people(or even so-called "cinephiles") find good. That's why i asked the question here. I don't want something too weird or shocking or overly gore/explicit. We are both adults so pertinent +18 scenes are not a problem**

Thanks in advance and sorry if this is the wrong sub for asking lol