39[F4M] Open to catching feelings

I'm married and bored out of my mind. The past few weeks have been the final straw for me and I'm finally ready to find someone to share a spark and see where it goes. I'm only looking for online but I'm open to eventually turning it into something more. I'm 39, married 9 years, no children, in the central US and consider myself a girly girl.

I'm looking to get to know someone before jumping into anything sexual. Attraction is important, I've been told I'm pretty but I am not a model by any means. I am a sucker for a great smile. I'm looking for the type of guy that into sports, food and wine, music, books, not so much nerdy but clean cut.