Interfaith marriages

Hi, I’m 28F, muslim, fortunate to be in a relationship with a highly supportive guy whos hindu for past 3 years.

Both our families know about the relationship. His has been extremely understanding and open.

From my side, my dad and sister are open whereas my mom is against. A little background towards my family, theres a huge dispute - property Money ego, and no one talks to another. Not even my mom dad as both of them blame each other for every problem in their life. For in past 10 years its been only my mom dad and sis as a family for me.

Coming to my SO’s, its a big family with tons of relatives who are actually close knit.

So just wanted to let out - 1. With all our friends getting married left and right, my story is stuck at my mother not ready to accept anything and boyfriend’s family waiting for an answer. 2. Everyone has relative, huge family to be for each other, multiple functions. I would just have a civil ceremony and no one else from my family apart from dad sis and mom (hopefully), but seems wrong to not give the same experience (wedding, relations with inlaws).

Not a big problem in everything’s going on in the world, but cannot seem to not think about it and be sad.