Ab thak gaya hun GF ko manate manate
Bhai, relationship mein jo banda sabse zyada compromise karta hai na, uska haal bas wahi samajh sakta hai.
Main bhi ekdum seedha banda tha, usko khush rakhne mein laga raha, apni galti ho ya na ho, maafi maangta raha. Uska mood off? Main responsible. Uska dukh? Main responsible. Usko attention chahiye? Main sab kuch chhod ke available. Par bhai, kabhi meri sunta kaun tha?
Ek baar dost ne bola, "Bhai, tu pyaar kar raha hai ya seva?" Tab samajh aaya ki main banda nahi, ek emotional punching bag ban chuka hun. Har jagah uska attitude, uski insecurity, aur uski demands. Main agar kuch bolu, toh "tum badal gaye ho," aur chup rahun toh "tumhe farq hi nahi padta."
Abhi kuch din pehle ka scene suno. Bandi ko pata chala ki main apne dost ke saath trip pe ja raha hun. Bas us din se emotional atyachaar shuru, "Mujhe toh waise bhi tumse pyaar ka feel nahi aata," "Main toh bas tumhare liye hi jee rahi hun," aur phir silent treatment.
Bhai, thak gaya hun yaar. Har baar banda hi samjhe, banda hi maafi maange, banda hi usko chase kare. Matlab bhai, self-respect naam ki bhi koi cheez hoti hai.
Ab soch raha hun ki ya toh apne emotions ka dahi bana lun ya phir bande ki tarah khud ko priority dunga. Aakhir kab tak ek toxic cycle mein ghus ke apni mental peace barbaad karta rahunga?
Ab ek hi cheez samajh aayi - "Zindagi GF ko manane ke liye nahi, khud ko banane ke liye mili hai."
Bhai, relationship mein jo banda sabse zyada compromise karta hai na, uska haal bas wahi samajh sakta hai.
Main bhi ekdum seedha banda tha, usko khush rakhne mein laga raha, apni galti ho ya na ho, maafi maangta raha. Uska mood off? Main responsible. Uska dukh? Main responsible. Usko attention chahiye? Main sab kuch chhod ke available. Par bhai, kabhi meri sunta kaun tha?
Ek baar dost ne bola, "Bhai, tu pyaar kar raha hai ya seva?" Tab samajh aaya ki main banda nahi, ek emotional punching bag ban chuka hun. Har jagah uska attitude, uski insecurity, aur uski demands. Main agar kuch bolu, toh "tum badal gaye ho," aur chup rahun toh "tumhe farq hi nahi padta."
Abhi kuch din pehle ka scene suno. Bandi ko pata chala ki main apne dost ke saath trip pe ja raha hun. Bas us din se emotional atyachaar shuru, "Mujhe toh waise bhi tumse pyaar ka feel nahi aata," "Main toh bas tumhare liye hi jee rahi hun," aur phir silent treatment.
Bhai, thak gaya hun yaar. Har baar banda hi samjhe, banda hi maafi maange, banda hi usko chase kare. Matlab bhai, self-respect naam ki bhi koi cheez hoti hai.
Ab soch raha hun ki ya toh apne emotions ka dahi bana lun ya phir bande ki tarah khud ko priority dunga. Aakhir kab tak ek toxic cycle mein ghus ke apni mental peace barbaad karta rahunga?
Ab ek hi cheez samajh aayi - "Zindagi GF ko manane ke liye nahi, khud ko banane ke liye mili hai."