Warning Post + Slight Rant

Ya'll..I was reminded today that I need to mind my black ass business instead of trying to do stuff I know deep down ain't for me.

Long story short I went to one of those scalp cleansing places cause I thought it'd be nice to get a scalp eval and get it deep cleaned and just overall have a nice relaxing experience.

When I say I almost left in TEARS. First of all...I paid $130 for a woman to simply *wash* my hair. She scratched my scalp like a cat for 35+ minutes and that was the *massage*. Used the most drying shampoo known to man to do it too. Then I "think" she conditioned it but if you told me she didn't i'd believe you because my hair was SOOOOO dry and tangled after that I started lowkey crying. No hair mask as advertised or any treatment at all. Just shampoo + condtioner + her weird scratching nails on my head for a half hour.

I told her I would style my own hair by the end because I had brought my own products expecting to have to style it myself anyways and I didn't really want the blowdry service. She leaves the room and I proceed to spend *45* minutes having to re-detangle my hair even though I had done so prior to arriving there. My hair was so dry and matted I was shedding like crazy and had to use excess product just to be able to style it properly and get it unmatted. There was product everywhere and I was so embarrassed and distressed. I've never had to do a full wash and go outside of my own bathroom or hotel and I was so anxious they would kick me out cause I was taking so long.

Overall horrible horrible experience. I think while in theory some things sound good, maybe it's best to accept things like this are for people with straight textured hair and we have no business.