Anyone else struggling with family who voted for these clowns?

Really struggling right now with family who voted for this madness, even after I was explicit about how it would very much affect my job. I realize that people vote the way they do for a variety of reasons, in this case, racism and a lack of basic economic education… however, I find it especially difficult and hurtful when I see the institutions I work for and support, and have dreamed of working for my whole life, getting trashed and then gutted in realtime…. And I cannot help but have a level of animosity to those who voted for this.