Well shit it happened and then it didn't happen

First off holy shit i topped a gorgeous trans woman for the first time and it was great. It was also my first time on HRT to actually have sex and not just mess around a bit. I took some cialis and it worked wonders. I was hard for plenty of time but it wore off when we were done. I know she at least got close from penetration but I don't know if I got her across that line (i REALLY hope she did though) and her equipment was of limits so that didn't help.

I didn't even come close to orgasm which is new. I don't know if it's the drug or HRT or what because I can jerk it like a guy and finish easily, and i would at least get close with cis people. I'm not complaining, I was just happy to have her bouncing and moaning under me, i didn't care at all about anything else.

Is that common? Like I know a lot of trans women are/ become bottoms, and I'm a top but I don't want to ONLY be able to cum from self stimulation. I'm trying to train to bottom because I'm curious but so far i just don't feel it.