Wanting to have sex with my wife REALLY motivates me — is this shallow or are other husbands like too?

I will probably get downvoted to oblivion for this but here it goes…. Wanting to have sex with my wife 45F really motivates me.

Like I 46M want to clear every possible obstacle and task in our everyday life so that we have a better chance to lay down together at a reasonable time at night to snuggle and (if the vibes and energy are right) have sex.

Like this morning (while she was driving our youngest kid to school) I was making the bed and picking up the bathroom and loading / starting the dishwasher and scrubbing toilets and walking the dog and loading / starting the laundry and paying for a kid activity online and ran our middle kid’s sports shoes out to his bus stop and then several other things.

But honestly while I’m doing this stuff I’m constantly thinking about her coming home and seeing stuff being done and being happy that she doesn’t have to do it and starting her day with good vibes. And I’m already thinking about getting her in bed tonight when the day is done, and having time with her to chat and laugh and snuggle and maybe more.

23 years married and these thoughts of her keep me pushing every day. I guess some people might call this “choreplay” or whatever. I don’t know what to call it but it truly drives me.

Is this ridiculously shallow for me to operate like this? Do other husbands get motivated like this too?