Husbands, Sex Quality vs Quantity??

As a Man would you prefer 5 Star Intimacy say 2x a month with someone you love or 2 Star intercourse 3x/4x weekly with someone else.

I'm asking because My Husband and I get busy maybe a few times a month, and It's really amazing, but with factors like age, hormones and schedule of being a toddler mom, I'm not always available to Jump his bones (tho I wish I could).

So I'm asking could my Husband be so unhappy with our current sex life so much that he secretly wishes he were single and having More Sex even if the passion may not quite be there??

This may be a stupid post, but I wanted a bit of insight.