A common theme in this season *SPOILERS*

So I finished watching the weddings episode & I have to say I noticed a commonality among the weddings that didn’t go through (Ben & Sara, Virginia & Devin, Monica & Joey).

The 3 women stated how the guys did not have thoughts or opinions about the deeper subjects or didn’t want to get into discussions about those deeper subjects.

As someone who is single & was dating up until 6 months ago, I found this to be a big reason why I gave up on dating. The substance part is always missing & it was interesting to see how many of the women on the show had called that out when talking about why they ultimately made their decision as they did. The fact that 3 out of the 4 women had such similar reasons & thoughts about it was really interesting to hear.

Curious to hear people’s thoughts on this!