Why are all guys on Grindr so heartless and emotionless? 😭😭😭

I mean they could just see beyond a picture there exists a person too. I don't mean they have to forcefully be with me but it's a lil disturbing to have a long convo with someone only to get ghosted/blocked or rejected by that man. Like u could be my friend too but don't be so straight out brutal 😭😭😭😭